I have decided on 3 things for my New Year's resolutions. The girls and the k9 geriatric ward are sleeping, boys are heavily involved in Lego Clone Wars on Wii (tell me again why I bought new games!) and hubby is at work. So is as good a time as any to post them.
I am not a big one for weight loss, although it is always in the back of my mind. I am a size 8 after our family of 4 is done, so nothing to sneeze at there. Although, some days I look at pictures from college and think...
So first and foremost is to continue to work on this transition we are still making into being a fire family. I did not marry a firefighter, this was never in my plans. But, it is where we are and it is what makes my husband complete. We made it through our first holiday season without too many hiccups. Only once did I "swear" at my firefighter for not being home, so I think that is pretty good. I am also working on being patient with the equity in housework as we make our way through this. I know it sounds petty to complain about laundry, but we are a family of 6 and my work comes home with me and does not get done until after the kids's homework is done, dinner is made/cleaned up and they are all tucked in for the night. My first resolution is patience through the chaos.
On my list were several things that came and went. First, it had to be attainable. I thought about giving up soda - but it is my one vice and it is currently in moderation. Then I thought about school work - having all papers graded before I go to bed each night - that only adds more stress to my world, not really worth it. Then came laundry, I work so hard to get it all done and somewhere, I always fall back behind. So, next resolution was laundry - I will do one load of laundry from start to finish each day. Sounds silly, but somewhere along the way I always drop the ball. I will get 1 load done- washed, dried, folded and put away -each day. Not including Jeff's uniforms, we have about half a load per day - this will allow me to get caught up (in time :) ) without totally derailing my routine - load will go in before I get everyone up in the morning, be in the drier before we head out the door. Then, as I am watching TV (gives me a guaranteed 30 minutes of mommy time) I will fold the load and put it away as I get everyone to bed.
I am looking for one more, had it in my mind, and now it is gone. That is what happens when the girls wake up before I get my list done. Ah well. I am certain it will come to me when I can't sleep tonight, I can always update it then.
Happy Monday!! Thank a firefighter for helping keep your community safe.
Laundry. Ugh.
ReplyDeleteAs you all get used to the fire schedule, your firefighter will be able to better gauge time management -- as will you -- and you'll fall into a better routine. It's taken us awhile, but we split work around the house pretty damn well!
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